My wien ain't what is used to be...
By - biggboss202020
You might have to be honest with your wife about this “flat line” that you’re going through, they do end so at least give her and yourself some light at the end of the tunnel.
Start exercising and eating better. That is a good place to start. Maybe some boner pills will help you
I hate exercise and love food. Everyone says that.
So give up the one thing I enjoyed to do something I hate... Sounds shitty... But I get it. You might be right.
Is it worth a healthier, longer life. And having a working dick, maybe..( not trying to be mean)
Flatlining bro. Nothing to be worried or ashamed of. It happens to everyone.
How do you handle this?
I was thinking that I needed to just tell my wife upfront "no sex for 90 days". That way we are clear why... When we try it just doesn't work.
Candidly, I'm tired of begging for sex... And now I can't even function anyways. My "excuse" for porn was that my wife wouldn't have sex and I didn't want to cheat, so porn seemed like a viable option I thought (at the time) harmless.
She has all these "I can't measure to porn" feelings... That just makes me feel worse as I can't seem to perform. Even worse, I relapsed and can't even seem to enjoy porn now either with all the guilt.
We have three kids... So sex is this plotted out escapade. It feels like it has to be scheduled.... Lucky if it is once a week or once every two or three... Always same thing.
But now w/o porn I feel anxious and impotent. I feel very Angry towards my wife. Candidly, I'm in my 30's and it's been nearly 20 years of porn daily. I'm scared I can't recover.
It feels like a raw deal. I'm married and christian so I'd never cheat. Yet, we don't have sex often. Now I'm giving up porn... I just feel angry. Help! I honestly want to give this up...
Obviously I have no idea what the dynamics of your marriage are but I can give you advice on the porn related aspect of things. Your libido will be much stronger and you’ll last longer which should help your sex life. As for your marriage maybe try engaging sex more? Just a suggestion though as I am in no way qualified to give advice about marriage. Maybe try making a post asking specifically married men who went through the same thing?
Hmm... I actually just talked to my wife about having no sex for 3 months. Going back to "dating" for 3 months. Praying, focusing on our relationship, not sex. Thought is that it'd give me time to get manhoon functioning but take pressure off... Everytime we try to have sex and my wien doesn't work I get this big thing from her wondering why I'm not attracted to her. I'm trying to remove that.
At any rate... I have no one to talk to... This is helpful. Thx u.
That’s what flatlining is. It’s your brain resetting the dopamine receptors and temporarily killing libido. Don’t worry though, it’s a temporary thing. Good luck brother. You got this.